When it comes to building a habit, consistency is self-reinforcing. As I walked to the gym today, I noticed how important it was that I was simply going to the gym at all. Because this is a habit...
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Writer’s block: Does it exist?
I'm fascinated about the debate about "writer's block." Some people claim that it does not exist, while others find themselves in the grips of it and feel invalidated by the people telling them it...
The deep vulnerability of being seen creatively
If you've ever felt called to doing something artistic or creative, you've probably also realized by now that it can be pretty uncomfortable to share that work with other people. There's a deep...
Don’t wait for the right time to write — get started fulfilling your calling now
I waited for a long time before I began writing seriously. I thought I need to make more money first, get caught up on my other commitments, have more childcare, or somehow find big blocks of time...
Only you can kill your dream
This post was inspired by a livejournal.com post I read by Jim Butcher, author of "The Dresden Files," called "The Most Important Thing an Aspiring Author Needs To Know." When I read it the other...
Creating requires a leap of faith, every day
Writing, creating, making changes. All of them require a leap of faith. I've been making a series of leaps over time. I left my "great" job as an urban designer to become a coach. I put myself out...
What are the hallmarks of a serious writer?
I recently read a wonderful article on ScriptMag.com by John Buchanan called, "Work Habits of the Pros," that inspired this post. 1. Write consistently. A serious writer knows that writing regularly...
Why do we write?
We write because we have stories to tell. We write to entertain. To explore. To connect. To teach. We write because if we don't, we can't sleep. We write to be paid. We write for the joy of it. We...
What does it mean to be called to the spotlight?
Being in the spotlight means having your creative work witnessed and responded to by an audience. It means being read, seen, heard. Being in the spotlight means having an audience. Whenever our work...
Is there a dark side to accountability?
I'm a big fan of accountability. Telling people you are going to do something is a great motivator for actually seeing it through. It's especially useful when it comes to doing something we care...
What about doing things just for the joy of it?
Last week I wrote about protecting ourselves from our dreams. I want to continue the conversation around the notion of doing things just for the joy of them, even if they don't "happen" the way we...
How to make writing a whole lot easier
I’m sharing a free series on “How to Find the Courage to Tell the Stories You Are Longing To Tell.” Today’s fourth and final post completes the series with thoughts on “How to Make Writing A Whole...












